Friends are more important. You know why?
Have you ever face a situation when you felt that you have to choose either your friends or your partner. It is one of those situation where we become numb because we have to choose whether friends are more important or our partner in life.
Not because of the fact that we can’t choose but it is so hard to decide and to choose between your friends and your partner.
Love is something that keeps us alive. And friends and your partner are the one who gives you love and affection you always require.
But ever wondered who is more important in our life. Is it our friends who are our companion of life. Or is it our relationship partner for whom we feel special and romantic all the time.
People generally puts various logical and illogical views about which relationship is more more important but besides creating a wall it has always been the conclusion that both friends and partner are inevitable part of our life.
But the question is as same as it was. Who is more important- friends or partner. Well, in my personal opinion, friends are more important than partner.
It is not just because I am against relationship or anything like that but in my opinions friends are more important in our life than partner and for this I have tried to put these 7 points that will help us to understand why it is so.
1. They have known you for a long time
Friends have known you for the longest time in your life. They know all the ups and downs you have faced in your life.
They also know what you have done and what you have been through in life. In short they have spend more time with you than as compared to your partner and no wonder why they know you better.
2. Less Drama
Have you ever felt complications and and drama in your friends circle? Not really ha! It is because there is no scope of drama in friends.
On other hand you are going to have full headache in your love life. No matter how lovely your partner is, fights, complications and misunderstanding are bound to happen in a relationship.
3. You can be yourself in front of your friends
Friends are someone with whom you don’t have to fill blank space with. They are someone who knows what you are and who you are.
You don’t need to be something what you are not in front of your friends but in case of a relationship, things are totally different.
You always have to maintain a decorum and standard with your partner all the time and that creates hypocrisy. This is why friends are more important.
4. Friends understand you and support you
Well, don’t read us wrong with this one. We are completely agree with the fact that even your partner supports you in decisions of life.
What I mean to say is, we have much better bond and communication with our friends because of the time we have shared with each other and that always create a foundation of mutual understanding. And this is why i consider friends are more important than lover.
5. More comfortable
Deep down you all know that you feel more comfortable and relax with your friends than anything else in the world.
I would rate that friends are more important and family as well. You don’t have to try something to impress them. They accept you the way you are and this makes them more important.
6. History tells that you need friends
Some history lessons for you here. Remember who came to rescues first time? Remember who came to save you last time? Most probably it will be your friends.
Friends are more important because you need them more than anything else in the world. You can live your life without a lovely partner but it is near to impossible that you can live without your friends.
Friends are something that brings happiness in life and without them life would be so boring and mo wonder why friends are more important than as compared to lover.
7. They will always be there
The biggest thing that clarifies why friends are more important than lover is that they will always be there in your life.
No matter what happened to you in life your friends will always have your back.
But in case of a relationship this one is hard to say. Doesn’t matter how smooth your relationship is, there is no surety that they will always love you in life.
We can see that there are so many examples of failed relationships but friendship never fails and this is why friends are more important.
However both partner and friends are important in life and without them it is hard to imagine our life.
It was just an experiment to determine who is more important in life. If you have anything to say about who is more important in life, feel free to post your comments in the box below.