Should you be a Yes boss person in a relationship?
Should your agree with your partner on everything? Should you be a Yes person in your relationship? What should you do in a relationship?
These are those questions that defines your life in a relationship. Whether its Old-school Typical relationship, Live-in relationship or long distance relationship, there will always be a time when you have to take decisions regarding certain things in life.
But the question remains same as it was. Should you agree with your partner on everything?
It is a general belief that people generally become Yes boss person, once they get into a relationship. One of the main reason behind this was our love and affection but more importantly it is the fear of loosing the loved ones.
If you ask me that should you agree with your partner on everything? And everything includes everything.
I would directly say No. There is no scope of saying yes in everything in life. Neither relationship doesn’t bind you to do everything they like, nor it binds you to be agreed on everything related to them.
Love is something that is free with no boundaries in it. One of the best reason why love is the best thing ever happened to our life is because it allows us to be what you want. Love accept our desire, our expressions and our opinion.
If your partner is someone who posses a personality of putting their opinions on you and you need to be agree all the time with that, this is not a relationship. This is one of the major signs of abusive relationship.
So, what do we need to do? On what things you should never agree with your partner on everything. Well, we are not saying to be a rebel but there are few things you should always think twice before being agreed with your partner in your love life and 7 of them are following.
1. Compromise on principles
Principle are those values in life for which people have given their lives. It is one of those things you should never compromise in life.
Principles includes set of belief and mentality you carry in your life. If your partner is someone who put emphasis on compromising with your principles, then you should never agree on this.
2. One sided sexual relationship
This is one of those things you should never agree with your partner. Physical relationship is a very big step and need to think twice before going for it.
It is one of those delicate things that should happen with the consent and mutual agreement of both partners.
If your partner is forcing you or heavily trying to persuade you for a physical relation without your desire, then you should never agree with your partner on this.
3. Action against your self respect
It is one of those thing that should treat in a straight forward manner. There is no space of compromise in it.
It is usually true that we face many ups and downs in our life and specially in case of relationships, things are much difficult and complicated to handle but you should never agree with your partner on anything that results in depreciating your self respect.
4. Anything that is wrong in your eyes
Another main thing on which you should never agree with your partner is anything that seems wrong to you.
Wrong is always wrong, there is no way to make it right. It is your perception and your mentality that defines what you truly are. One should never be agree with your partner on these things.
5. Physical abuse
Well, I do not think that I need to write anything about it and majority of our readers will be agree on it that nobody should tolerate physical abuse.
But the question here is not about tolerating it but having a mutual opinion on it. If your partner is someone who justifies physical abuse in any way then you should never agree with your partner.
6. Anything wrong for both of you
Take a step and speak about what is right and what is wrong for your relationship, marriage, kids or anything else in life.
If you believe that your partner is not going right regarding certain things and decisions then you should never agree with your partner on this.
7. Any theory regarding cheating and extra affair
There is no way you can justify cheating and extra affair in your love life. Some people try to put various logical and illogical points to validate it.
But the reality is, in real love, there is no place for such things and you should never agree with your partner on it.
Well, this was the list of 7 things on which you should never agree with your partner. Love is a bridge of trust, affection and mutual interest and communication.
So communicate well, do share thought with each other and always ready to agree with your partner on positive things and for criticizing them in negative things.