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What is Attachment Parenting

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What is attachment parenting ? What is it all about?

Parenting itself is a huge term. As a parent, we sacrifice our entire life, just to make our children’ life much better. One of the main aspects of parenting is attachment parenting.

Since the need of effective parenting has rise, the most efficient and effective way of parenting is becoming a need of the society now.

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The way you up bring your child, it represents you. There is no rocket science to understand it.

In the one of the main aspects of parenting, attachment parenting has become too crucial these days. But what does that mean? What attachment parenting truly is?

Attachment Parenting

Attachment parenting is something that focuses on the nurturing and evolving connection with parents. As the word ‘attachment’  defines attachment of a child towards the parents.

In other words we can say that it is a kind of philosophy that helps to promote attachment between parents and a child.

Origin of attachment parenting

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The origin of attachment parenting is not new. It was first coined by American Pediatrician William Sears.

He coined this term in 1982. He believed that it is the most important part of the parenting that must happen in the upbringing of a child.

Attachment parenting is not that tough. It requires attention, love and caring between parents and their child. We are here to tell you seven main principle that will define attachment parenting in most simplest way.

1. Feed with love and respect

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What is the best way to show your love and affection towards a new born baby? It is breastfeeding.

Brest feeding is the purest way, by which a mother shows her love and affection towards a child. Breast feeding is also considered as the optimal way to satisfy a child’s mental and physical needs.

This is one of the main reasons why breastfeeding is considered s the greatest of of attachment parenting.

2. Response with love and sensitivity

Response with love in attachment parenting

One of the main reasons why it is necessary that you should have lovely and sensitive relationship with your child in the early days because it works as a foundation of trust and sympathy between parents and child.

You can expect your child to do things by themselves, they need attention, love and caring from someone and that is their parents.

3. Touch is a big deal

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As a parent, your touch is something that will mean a lot to your child. There is no shadow of doubt in it.

As an innocent child, your baby doesn’t know the ins and outs of the world. Your touch is something that meet their needs of touch, affection, security and a feeling of belonging with their parents.

This is why there is no rocket science to figure out that, a child figure out their parents faster than anything else in the world.

4. Mutual feelings

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Feeling is something that defines your relationship with anyone and in case of attachment parenting, it is a must thing.

How do your child knows that only mother will feed you? How do you your mother know that you are hungry, once you started crying?

It is because of the genetic and emotional feelings we share with our parents.

5. Night sleep

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Parents are the one one which their kids rely. When a baby born, he/she doesn’t know what is day, what is night.

It is their parents who introduced them to this environment and to this ecosystem where everything works as a system.

Kids rely on their parents to take care of them in the dark, and to regulate their emotions.

6. Positive learning

positive learning in attachment parenting

It is a part of attachment parenting that parents need to teach their kids about positive things in the life.

Or in other words, I should say that, parents are supposed to guide and teach their children about positive behavior and manners in life.

It is also a part of attachment parenting, to figure out what is wrong with the child and to make it right as well.

7. Provide consistency in positivity

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One of the main principles of attachment parenting, is that parents needs to provide consistency in positivity in life.

By positivity, I mean to say constantly providing them love and affection in the early stages of life.

There is a matter of fact that attached baby cry less. There is nothing to shock about it but it is a fact that, more attached and pampered baby grow more and better.

We can argue about several things such as parenting styles, evolution of parenting and other things  but the one thing on which all agrees that, attachment parenting is a must thing for all of our kids in life.

There is a general observation that attached kids are much happier, relaxed and pleasant than as compared to others.

This is all we have for now. What do you think about it? What are your views on attachment parenting?

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About Aarav Sharma

When not indulging in writing and learning, Aarav fanboys over Pro Wrestling, Cricket, Linkin Park and Greenday. A disciplined child by day who is proudly following straight edge culture.

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